Homework Headaches

This photo is actually not of Teagan in pain, but
showing off his newly lost teeth, but thought
it was appropriate for this post, because
homework is just like pulling teeth
sometimes. LOL

     Homework is a two-person battle, no matter how old your child is. With a child who has special needs, especially for those who have multiple diagnoses, homework is the devil’s work, and best left to the ninth level of Hell. Homework requires focus, an understanding of what is being asked, and an ability to write what the brain processes. Some children, those with ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) for example, have a very difficult time staying focused and sitting still.
     As the mother of a child with not only severe ADHD, but also five other diagnoses, I feel very qualified to help those who may be experiencing the same headaches with homework that we deal with every day in my house. These techniques will also work for any child struggling to complete homework.
     You will want to make sure you are in a well-lit area with a nice flat surface to write on. Ensure your child’s chair is of appropriate height so that he or she can reach the table or desk without kneeling in the chair. Another helpful tip is to place a small stool beneath your child’s feet, so they are not kicking and wiggling while working. You will then want to alleviate any distractions: put your pet in another room, turn off all televisions, radios, cell phones, etc.
     After you have the appropriate environment, make homework fun. Make spelling words a game, count to 10 for each word, and see if your child can write the word before you get to 10. For math, use something your child enjoys. An example would be if you have 10 cars and I borrow 5, how many cars do you have left? If your child still struggles, ask them how you could make it easier for them. Children may have an idea or two you haven’t thought of.
     Homework doesn’t have to be a nightmare; it can be an enjoyable time to help your child succeed in school and a valuable way to bond. Making homework more about fun and less about work will bring your child from the ninth level of Hell to top of the class.